Sensual seniors dating
we can choose to tear down the walls that we have built up against intimacy, choose to take the risks of it, choose to create the experiences, reunions, that will keep it alive, over the distances of time and space.But space itself, and time too, must be created anew; we have to use it differently, move maybe to a different space, for the bonds of intimacy to continue to grow and nourish us in age.” Senior living communities are one place where dating has blossomed.That’s great, but I don’t want to know about it.” And there’s me – I knew it was going on, but I didn’t know the extent of it. What matters the most is how you feel about your sexuality, your level of desire and your libido.I think the surprise for me was also about the power of intimacy over the power of sex. Twenty-year-olds who are ‘hooking up’ are hoping the sexual chemistry will lead to some kind of emotional connection beyond the physical hookup. You want to communicate your sexual expectations, desires and performance levels to your partner and for your partner to be on the same page. There are women who are post-menopausal, have lost their libido and don’t want to be on hormones or use the “vaginator” that stretches female sex organs. But I don’t want someone in my bed.” She is the woman who gets a vibrator, and it may be her first. That’s really what many women enjoy – young and old: taking your time and exploring each other physically.Thankfully, the baby boomer population is pushing the topic into the mass media, and trend analysts expect to see a further increase in personal services and products tailored to aging boomers and seniors.While seniors desire love, they face many obstacles beyond the social norms and taboos.
People want to believe that seniors are asexual beings, but seniors desire — even need — romantic relationships, just as we do.
His passion for helping seniors and his fondness for the written word are evident in his articles about issues affecting older adults and their families.
Jeff also writes and records music under the moniker Mysterious Inventors.
Women are living longer than ever, they’re outliving their husbands and partners generally, and they’re dating again.
Because of the extended life cycle, because of better drugs, because of heightened fitness levels, women are not only living longer they’re living better. I feel more youthful and energetic and hopeful than ever.